Statement based by false generalization is faulted already. Using fabricated hearsay and irrational words that you borrowed from someone also kills one's creditability. And to my surprise is that one of my friends (with her many years of education overseas), still talks like one of those who never left their countries.
That horrifies me to some degrees. Why would she believe that?
Those are just irrational words that meant to stir up more emotions and make people not being able to sensibly look at the real issues themselves. I wish to reason with her, but I recede knowing that it will just lead to blurry meaningless discussion.
On the second note, maybe the whole celebration thing is overrated. I don't know why it is so hard to make plans with others sometimes. oh well. Probably it is also an unnecessary celebration too! Difficult times now... one should learn to count his blessing!
On the last note, I feel like hurting people now. I know it sounds mad to say so, but don't feel sort of feeling like that when we're out of love? I don't know. I am a creep I know.
(oh, got my very lovely red dress ever. Jen is the best sister you can ever got! yay!)
yes, I want him jealous...I long for his attention. I know it was just all silly....but I don't care. really I don't care.
2010年4月30日 星期五
2010年4月28日 星期三
"Stay hungry, stay foolish"
No matter how fast time changes...家書還是可以抵萬金呀
這是今天在整理歸類東西時的一個感想
在整理的同時, 又找到了這一篇幾年前聽過的演講 今天再聽一次 還是同樣令人振奮
尤其是在這個時間點上, 我覺得我更能感同身受吧
以下是我節選我自己所喜愛句子 大部分是從第二個故書出來的
"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
"I had been rejected, but I'm still in love."
"Keep looking, don't settle."
這是今天在整理歸類東西時的一個感想
在整理的同時, 又找到了這一篇幾年前聽過的演講 今天再聽一次 還是同樣令人振奮
尤其是在這個時間點上, 我覺得我更能感同身受吧
以下是我節選我自己所喜愛句子 大部分是從第二個故書出來的
"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
"I had been rejected, but I'm still in love."
"Keep looking, don't settle."
2010年4月16日 星期五
2010年4月3日 星期六
In-time reminder
Saw this on my korean sister's page tonight... what a perfect time. This is one of my favorite poems back in the days.
The Road Not Taken
by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth.
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same.
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
The Road Not Taken
by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth.
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same.
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Decision, decision, decision.
老爸說的是實話 他們在金錢在資源方面 從來沒有不支持我
我覺得今天很讓我難過的是
我知道他們在擔心
但是他們光是擔心 擔心著還沒發生的未來 就一昧不看好我
反倒讓我更失望
It's the first time that I actually got the chance and the guts to bring out the idea of wanting to go to Vienna and study German there after I finish my studies here. and their reaction is predictably shocked and somehow don't understand....of course my dad, he wants me to think over this again.
I know the idea of me going there indeed seems ridiculous in a way, but I am confident that Kgo and I can make things work. I don't know why it is so hard for them to accept when I choose to do something that seems to be out of their realm. Of course, I know they're doing so is because they care about me, they want to protect me and want me to make decisions that are good for me. But I really don't see myself going back to Taiwan either. I don't wanna go back. yes, I might eventually get hurt, and go home with wound, hiding my tail between my legs, but before I actually step out and be there. I really know nothing!
I don't know how to explain, but I feel that I'm neither on Kgo's side, nor on their side. It is not that I don't love them, I miss them too, but I know that I won't be happy going back home, because I won't have Kgo on my side, I'll be empty. But going over there is like this daunting gigantic task that I don't know how to solve other than simply trying to carry it out.
我覺得今天很讓我難過的是
我知道他們在擔心
但是他們光是擔心 擔心著還沒發生的未來 就一昧不看好我
反倒讓我更失望
It's the first time that I actually got the chance and the guts to bring out the idea of wanting to go to Vienna and study German there after I finish my studies here. and their reaction is predictably shocked and somehow don't understand....of course my dad, he wants me to think over this again.
I know the idea of me going there indeed seems ridiculous in a way, but I am confident that Kgo and I can make things work. I don't know why it is so hard for them to accept when I choose to do something that seems to be out of their realm. Of course, I know they're doing so is because they care about me, they want to protect me and want me to make decisions that are good for me. But I really don't see myself going back to Taiwan either. I don't wanna go back. yes, I might eventually get hurt, and go home with wound, hiding my tail between my legs, but before I actually step out and be there. I really know nothing!
I don't know how to explain, but I feel that I'm neither on Kgo's side, nor on their side. It is not that I don't love them, I miss them too, but I know that I won't be happy going back home, because I won't have Kgo on my side, I'll be empty. But going over there is like this daunting gigantic task that I don't know how to solve other than simply trying to carry it out.
2010年4月1日 星期四
Last day of March
又生了無所謂的脾氣吧
但是感覺他很不珍惜我
還是真的少根筋 (或是我也是少根筋?)
有時跟他溝通真是傷腦筋! >"<
今天也是'大姨媽'來造訪我的第一天
可能真的算他倒楣吧
又記
有時人可能真的不要太大方 或熱心
我有點擔心前陣子剛認識的德國朋友會錯意
雖然說他人很好 但我也跟他表明我有男朋友了呀
希望這只是暫時的
但是感覺他很不珍惜我
還是真的少根筋 (或是我也是少根筋?)
有時跟他溝通真是傷腦筋! >"<
今天也是'大姨媽'來造訪我的第一天
可能真的算他倒楣吧
又記
有時人可能真的不要太大方 或熱心
我有點擔心前陣子剛認識的德國朋友會錯意
雖然說他人很好 但我也跟他表明我有男朋友了呀
希望這只是暫時的
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